I know what u mean..im good friends with phil..he was over here last month we played a few games for a few thousand..u know loose change..anyways i had 10 10 and raised..he called..flop 10 4 7..i checked he bet and i said all in..he called..he had queen 7..anyway i won..he started saying i shouldnt raise with 10s and i listened then said "phil mate why not?"..he didnt know what to say..anyways we are still good friends